Hye Guys!

[Soft Sun]

Usually people use word guy just for men or boys and in latest dictionary it really means same but.......... In old dictionary ( Oxford 1964 ) it also means fellows so, I am saying hye to all of you fellows.
I am soft sun. Girl of 18 doing BSCS and joining you to get education. I hope you all will help me to get education of knowing people and surroundings......

[jaMal]

ofcourse we will help you, Welcome and thanks for joining us @ Pakmates.

[shibz]

yesh we will be happy .. if we can do any thing for you .... in any manners ...
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[nasir31971]

welcome to pakmtes.
have alot of fun here.

[Soft Sun]

Thanks a lot to all of you. I believe it will great to be with all Competent Learners and I'll Believe in myself after spending some time with you. I also believe in myself but it will be much better to get more confidence.......
To learn is a fun for me but infact the purpose of my life so I hope we'll have great fun....

[jaMal]

its ok soft. We all are here for fun.. if we can help you than let us know, we all here to help you in any manner we can. Good to hear that " To Learn " is purpose of your life.

[Soft Sun]

Well.......By learning i don't mean the typical type of learning. From each and every thing we learn something. Such as if you brought here such kind of stuff which persuade me to think or to know something about gernal knowledge or regarding to some other subject then it will be a pleasure for me. I am not a book worm type of person but i believe in learning with fun......

[jaMal]

well i did not mean that.. anyways, if you need anything just let me know :)

[Soft Sun]

I haven't any specific requirement yet. Thanks to be concern about it. By the way would you plz explain what did i percieve wrong that you don't really mean to say?

[jaMal]

Well soft you haven't perceive anything wrong. Just leave it and tell me something about yourself.

[Soft Sun]

I don't find any thing special to tell about myself. Every thing is so common but you can ask what ever you wanna know about me.

[jaMal]

* Human is a common * Well every 1 in this world is special and they have some specialities no matters what kind of that speciality is but every 1 is special. You can not say that there is nothing special about you to tell anyways, i just wana know about you, what you do , Hobbies like / dislikes .. where are you located on this planet. nothing else :p i think its enough to know about you.

[Soft Sun]

I am from Rawalpindi. I like a lot of things to do. For example, I love to read and write literature, Watching historical and horror movies of holly wood and some of bollywood aswell, watching natural paintings and natural photographs, listening news, learning about latest technologies as well as about human psychology........ I'm not recalling other such things right now.
Well, there are also a lot of things which i dislike. For example, I hate Latest bollywood movies, The diplomacy of news channels and diplomacy of people also..... There are also a lot of other things which i dislike but i have to observe it in almost every one thats why i don't think i have to discuss them......
I think it's quite enough about me. So common na?

[jaMal]

I love to read and write literature, Watching historical and horror movies

well Soft i think its not so common, this is your speciality just forget *horror movies* from the above line :p. (I hope you will not mind for calling you soft :) )

Well not the all but there are some people who love to to read historical books love to watch historical movies and love to visit historical places, the rest of them like to read love Stories , like to watch romantic films, love to waste their time in flirting and many more things. " I don't like to mention anything in the place of *many more*:) ". They all are just wasting their time in other things *whocares*.

well i did not mean that am the *Best* or whatever " but I'm better than the rest ". I hope you will not mind of Self praising. i heard from many people i don't know why they think that I'm so good. lol :D

anyways, nice to know this much about you.

[Soft Sun]

It feels good to be called "soft". I don't know you much that's why i can't say whether you are the best or not but if most of the people admire you then obviously you have something. I haven't any right to mind your self praising. Your confidence is really an attractive thing but isn't it much better to just let others to praise you rather then self praising because self praising is a common thing and i conceit you'll not wanna be a common person....
As far as the matter of love and romance is concerned, do they really exist? Obviously they do but .001 percent. So, we should consider that our creation was not for this purpose. There are a lot of other things to do in world.

[jaMal]

even i also feel good to call you soft. well there is nothing special about me to know. I am just a human like others but i have different thinking with the different concepts, you can say that am still living in old age in this new time.


well i did not mean that am the *Best* or whatever " but I'm better than the rest ". By this what exactly i mean " There is NO ONE in this world except your mother, who knows you better than yourself." I know what am i, what qualities i have. I never tried to show my those qualities or specialites to others because i don't like this. I did not mean that am the best at all. Million of people are still in this world who are much better than me, Not better; They are *Excellent* than me. I don't know the reason why they say that am good, even i also don't know what is the reason behind this. Agreed with you to let others praise to you rather than self praising but, *IBN HAYTHAM* Stated that " Don't ever think that you're less than other, or NOTHING. Always think positively about yourself, if you want to praise yourself for what you have done, than do it. Praise yourself, because this self praising will give you more confidence on yourself and courage to do what you've to do in future, but don't be over confident. " About matter of love and romance do you think that it still exist? i think love doesn't exist in this time, there was a time when LOVE means LOVE but in this period the meaning of love is completely changed. I hope you understand what excatly i want to say. I don't want to go in detials. if we all understand the real purpose of our creation than i think all of us will be in One line which will not be easy to bisect.

Anyways, i think i have exceeded so better to quit :).

[Soft Sun]

Well..... jamal here I a little bit disagree with you. I think no one can know a person better than his ownself even nor his mother can.
Human psychology is too difficult to understand so is of me but if you think you know yourself better then it's really a marvallous thing. I think if all of us become able to understand their ownselves then half of our problems would be solved by their own.
Sorry if my words felt harsh to you but i really don't mean that. A lot of people admire themselves because they think that they have an adorable personality not because of that reason you have shown. I think if any one is clear from his heart then he should do whatever he feels right without bothering all that the others think about him....

[jaMal]

Agreed that Human psychology is too difficult to understand, but am not agreed with this even nor his mother can. what i believe *my mother know me better than myself* I have strong faith in it. I'm a small part of her which was seperated years before, maybe you'll think that this is the reason but this is not the actual reason for believing in this, millions of reason behind this which i have seen and I am not only the one who believe in this alot of people are in this world who have strong faith in it. Anyways, no need to say sorry there is nothing harsh. You have shared your thoughts and some *GOLDEN* words.

[Soft Sun]

Well i respect your point of view as every one have liberty of thinking as well as of expression but i still disagree with you. I think it's our emotional attachment with our mothers due to which we say this other wise this statement doesn't possess any reality.
It's nice to have an exchange of views with you!

[administrator]

i think both of you are saying right. Soft sun you said that every one have liberty of thining as well expressions, i respect jamal's feelings and point of view but he said in the start that every 1 have different thinking and point of views, there is no one in this world who know you better than yourself, if he is saying that his mother know him better than himself than i think he is right. you said its his emotional attachment with his mother thats why he feels like this.

But why he feels like this? why he is saying that his mother know him better than him self? there will be some strong reasons behind this which he know better than us.

[Soft Sun]

I think i hadn't convey my point of view properly that's why you take it as a comment specifically for jamal. I just take it as a general discussion not more than this. I agree with you that jamal knows himself better than us and obviously we can't impose our thinking on him. I'm sorry if my words felt as criticism to any one!

[administrator]

i know this is a general discussion, but i exchanged my views like you and jamal. I think there is nothing hard to feel that you have criticized his feeling. am agreed that we can't impose our thinking on him but i am not agreed with you that his statement doesn't possess any reality. There are a lot of people who believe in this even i have 1 friend who is living in South Africa nowadays, who believe that his mother know him better than him. And i think he is right because when he was at Lahore i got a lot of reason to believe in this.

[Soft Sun]

You have right to disagree with me. Thanks for sharing your observation here due to which three votes goes against me but it feels good to know other's point of view.

[jaMal]

guyz and galz... I think to leave this topic now, let us start a new topic. :)

[larasen]

well! when you feel jealous of anyone's success then you can try it urself see you will get some work to do then u may get attracted to it n make it ur ambition